My parents got in a bad argument/fight in the car/van?

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My parents got in a bad argument/fight in the car/van?

School was canceled today I'm a 14 yearold girl we had/have to go to my grandmother's apartment today to give her some food.(she is unable to move/drive/walk) So yeah then we were in my parents van trying to drive to her house which is in Atlanta about 55 minutes away from my neighborhood(house).Then once we got into the van and started to drive out of our drive way my dad kept saying something was wrong with the brakes my mom said nothing was and to keep driving so we can get there in time before its to late.By the way this happened about 9:40ish AM. Then my mom got ticked off and started yelling at me in the backseat of the van.Then both of my parents got mad and started yelling and cussing at each other.Then my dad got so ticked off and drove all the way home.All that crap waisted about 23 minutes of this DAY! now its about 10:15 AM.My mom opened the door and told me and my dad to go inside(not her words they are to hurtful to post here).So we did she went to this lady named Florence to help her(she's our old friend sick in rehab care right now).My mom said she'd be right back(not so happy voice and look when she said it).I didn't cause any of this.What should I do? I am currently in my room(with door locked) I think my dad is downstairs on his computer.I appreciate all the help! Hopefully I wont be miserable all day.

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awommack
September 12th, 2010 - 17:15

just tell here
makeitso1960
September 14th, 2010 - 07:30

Don’t sweat it. Do your parents fight all the time, or are they having a bad day? Marriages can be stressful. Just take it easy and tell them it’s hurts you that they yell at each other. Tell them you love them. That makes us parents feel better. Good luck little one. God bless you.
DrBill
September 15th, 2010 - 09:20

The best thing you can do is to stay out of it. Stay in your room for a while and then go about your normal activities as if nothing happened. Later you may want to talk to your mom about what she said to you and how it made you feel.
Good Luck
Byakuya
September 18th, 2010 - 18:34

you wasted 23 whole minutes!? oh noes!

but seriously, don’t sweat it unless they fight all the time.. I get pretty ticked off at my wife sometimes, but I still love her..
Richard C
September 21st, 2010 - 19:47

Just stay where you are and let them sort out their drama. There is nothing you can do to try and settle this thing….which probably started long before everyone got cooped up in the van.
Allison
September 23rd, 2010 - 09:28

Sounds like everyone’s a little stressed out honey, don’t worry this storm will pass soon. Just be patient and let everything cool down, ok? We all say things we don’t mean when we’re angry and frustrated, and I’m sure whatever your mom said to you and your dad was just out of anger. For now just keep your mind busy. Maybe later on when things cool your mom will apologize to you and your dad, and you can have a family meeting about what happened. If I were you, I would do more listening than talking. Hang in there, and please try to have a good rest of the day
ruthloveshessgurl
September 23rd, 2010 - 15:24

everyone fights they will make it through it
Kmuzu
September 24th, 2010 - 08:28

The cause of this does not have to do with the car or you. It’s purely about anxiety. Your parents are stressed out and they’re venting on each other and on you. This is probably going to go on for a while. My best advice is to stay out of it for the time being – then when things cool off, express your feelings and talk about the situation to your parents. Try to be positive and do not accuse.

Hope everything works out. When you get married you will soon realize this happens all the time. It is part of life – granted the crappy part.